If you had to choose, what do you think is the most important ability for a person? Hard work, ambition, humor? Or chatting, flirting, dating? Besides these, there are many abilities in life that are important but most people do not possess. 1. Expressing ideas accurately with language This is truly a skill Honestly, most of us lack this skill, but it is extremely important. Accurately expressing your thoughts can help you build relationships and leave a deep impression on others. Mastering this skill allows you to communicate ideas freely with others. Although I am not an expert, I believe the key to improving your expression skills is to be brave and speak up. You can try talking to strangers, striking up a conversation with a train seatmate, or contacting a first love you haven't seen in years. Chat with those you need to muster courage to talk to, which forces you to articulate your thoughts clearly. Go out and start conversations with others. Unbind yourself and express yourself. 2. The ability to be alone Learn to be happy alone Solitude is a skill. You can be happy even when alone. If you master this skill, trust me, no one can take away your happiness. Be your own best friend, enjoy your own company, and enjoy the happy moments of being alone. If you acquire this skill, you will begin to appreciate the people and everything around you. In solitude, be a multitude to yourself. In solitude, one should be like an army. ~Roman poet Tibullus 3. Breaking free from herd mentality Not following the crowd is also a skill Someone once conducted an experiment: in front of a flock of sheep, they placed a fence. After the lead sheep jumped over the fence, the sheep behind also jumped one by one. This seems reasonable, right? But when the fence was suddenly removed, the sheep behind continued to jump as if the fence were still there. If you ask them why they jump, they might answer, "The sheep in front jumped, so I followed." And humans are not much smarter than sheep. We also have this "herd effect": we learn things quickly, but sometimes much of what we learn is wrong. This phenomenon can explain many things in our lives. For example, feudal superstition under the guise of religion, or Indians' craze for engineering. Unfortunately, most of us are like the sheep that keep jumping. Sheep cannot survive; they eventually end up in the slaughterhouse. Learning not to imitate others like sheep may be one of the most important lessons in our lives. 4. The ability to recover quickly Resilience Resilience means "elasticity, resilience, the ability to recover quickly." Metaphorically in life, it is the toughness of life. Standing up again and again from total defeat, even after a plane crash: You can return to glory: Even after repeated experimental failures: Never give up and set sail again: You should try to cultivate this ability. 5. The ability to let go Letting go Some things are really not tailor-made for you; no matter how hard you try, you may never get them. Sometimes, you need to change your goals and adjust your plans. You can try taking a deep breath, then another, and then say, "Okay, I can start considering my new plan"—you must have this attitude. Learning to let go can start with the following: Give up all material greed Throw away or donate clothes you don't wear Stop waiting for comments and likes on your Moments Stop resenting the girl you were once devoted to Don't regret missed opportunities Give up trying with all your might to make someone who doesn't love you love you ... Learning to let go is a sign of maturity. Although it is not easy, it is important. 6. The ability to tell stories Tell a good story Many people are remembered for a long time because they know how to tell a good story. You will meet countless people in your decades of life, and you will forget most of them, but you will definitely remember those who can tell stories. 7. The ability to be "different" Different from others Another important skill is knowing how to make yourself stand out. You need to find a field where you do better than everyone else, and also be someone who creates value for others. (Even if your skill is niche) Of course, learning some skills is more valuable than others. But in the long run, it is hard to say which skill is most valuable. The simplest way to gain an advantage may be to combine two seemingly unrelated skills. For example: it is very difficult to be the best computer engineer in the world, and it is also very difficult to be the person who knows dolphins best in the world. But it is achievable to be someone who knows both computer knowledge and something about dolphins. You can try writing software to record dolphin migration patterns, or be inspired by the way dolphins communicate with each other to develop new software. 8. The ability to self-discipline Self Discipline Finally, what you need is the ability to self-discipline, because it is almost a prerequisite for achieving any other dream. Self-discipline means letting your thoughts decide your actions, not your emotions. Even after the initial enthusiasm fades, continue to complete an idea or project Even if you really want to lie on the sofa and watch TV, you still go to the gym Get up early to work Say "no" when faced with temptation ... It is self-discipline that made me get up at 5 a.m. this morning to run and then write this article. Trust me, in the past, I would still be curled up in bed now, but this thought was overcome by my rationality. If you are struggling with self-discipline, the good news is that it will definitely help you. 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