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# Salesperson, if someone wants to give you a hand, where is yours? Every word is like a needle

> If you are not brave, no one will be strong for you. When you start a business, you will find that strangers are the first to believe in you, partners are the first to encourage you, people around you are the first to look down on you, relatives are the first to distrust you, and those closest to you hit you the hardest. When you succeed and treat others to dinner, you will find that everyone is there except the strangers who first believed in you and helped you succeed. So when you face opposition, gossip, ridicule, and abuse, it is all normal; do not give up your dreams because of these voices, for it is these voices that make us stronger.

If you are not brave, no one will be strong for you.

**When you start a business, you will find**
The first to believe in you are **strangers**
The first to encourage you are **partners**
The first to look down on you are **people around you**
The first to distrust you are **relatives**
The ones who hit you hardest are your **closest people**

**When you succeed and treat others to dinner, you will find:**
**Except for the strangers who first believed in you and helped you succeed, everyone else is there.**

So when you face opposition, gossip, ridicule, and abuse, it is all normal. Do not give up your dreams because of these voices. It is precisely because of these voices that we become stronger!

**There are some people we should not disturb**
**People without dreams** – we should not disturb them
**People with too many excuses** – we should not disturb them
**People without opinions** – we should not disturb them

Jack Ma said: "Change is painful, but not changing is even more painful!"

If you don't work hard, even if others want to give you a hand, they can't find your hand!

What kind of people can truly start a business?

**Endure loneliness**
To achieve success in life, you must endure loneliness, especially at the beginning of a business. Often, to reach your goals, while others are resting, you are still working silently. This process is very lonely, but if you can get through it, you will achieve greater success than others.

**Bear solitude**
For life, work, and career, often we cannot be with family and friends, but must occupy a lot of rest time and time for family reunions. Can we bear this solitude?

**Withstand pain**
The road of life is not smooth; there will inevitably be many bumps, tears, and pain. After pain, there are often two results: one is to be dispirited; the other is to become stronger. After experiencing pain, do we become dispirited or stronger? It depends on whether we can withstand the pain.

**Withstand pressure**
Without pressure, there is no motivation. Everyone knows this simple truth, but many people choose to escape and give up when faced with pressure. Only when we adjust our mindset and face pressure calmly can we inject unlimited motivation into our growth and development.

**Resist temptation**
In life and work, we must stick to our ideals and principles. As long as we adhere to what is right, even if there is temporary pain, we should persist; if what we do is wrong, even if there is temporary pleasure, we should resolutely refuse it!

Temptations exist everywhere in life. If our willpower is not strong, these temptations will affect and hinder our progress at any time, even making us lose our direction and fall into the whirlpool of short-term interests. In the face of all kinds of temptations, we must continue to adhere to our correct principles and ideals.

**Endure setbacks**
Every failure, every tear, and every drop of sweat in life constantly tosses us, making our development path full of thorns. But after countless tosses, we can deeply understand the true meaning of life. We ask ourselves: can we endure setbacks again and again? After countless tosses, can we still persist?

**Bear blows**
When facing others' repeated sneers and sarcasm, and when facing customers' repeated blows, can we bear them? Can we maintain our initial passion and stick to our goals? Can we keep our indicators from declining and continuously increase measures?

In market development, when customers rudely tell us to "get lost," what kind of mindset do we maintain? Do we continue to strive or immediately leave in disgrace and never seek another meeting? Whether as individuals or as a group, if we do not grow in the face of blows, we will perish in them!

**Let go of face**
Face is given by ourselves, not by others. Fear of losing face will make us lose face for a lifetime; fear of failure will make us fail for a lifetime! The result of fearing to lose face is often to "slap one's face to look fat," which makes us more painful and causes us to lose even more face, trapping us in a vicious cycle!

**Take responsibility**
The word "responsibility" is often on our lips in life and work. The Xinhua Dictionary defines responsibility as: the fault that should be borne for what should be done but is not done or not done well.

Responsibility is divided into three types: family responsibility, corporate responsibility, and social responsibility. In the family, we play roles such as children, fathers, husbands, wives; in the enterprise, we play roles as employees, managers, leaders, or bosses; in society, we play roles as citizens, lawyers, teachers, entrepreneurs, etc. In short, everyone plays different roles in different occasions. However, can we truly use actions to bear our roles in various occasions?

**Keep up spirit**
When we work overtime for several consecutive days or work under overload, can we keep up our spirit and continue to sprint toward our goals? The world is a cultivation room; worldly affairs are the cultivation realm; the sky is the cultivation will; the earth is the cultivation chest!

Source: Internet
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