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title: "Reason for Success: Endurance; Reason for Failure: Escape."
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# Reason for Success: Endurance; Reason for Failure: Escape.

> Why does a boss never give up easily no matter how hard things get, while an employee wants to flee when things go poorly? Why do a married couple not easily divorce despite big conflicts, while a dating couple often breaks up over trivial matters? Ultimately, how much you invest in a matter or relationship determines how much pressure you can bear, how much success you can achieve, and how long you can persist. Feng Lun said: Greatness is forged through endurance. Why endurance? Because you must endure grievances that ordinary people cannot bear; you lack the understanding, comfort, and encouragement that ordinary people need; while ordinary people vent emotions through confrontation, negativity, and blame, you must see love and light and learn to transform and digest everything; ordinary people need a shoulder to lean on when weak, but you are the shoulder others lean on.

Why does a boss never give up easily no matter how hard things get, while an employee wants to flee when things go poorly?
Why do a married couple not easily divorce despite big conflicts, while a dating couple often breaks up over trivial matters?
Ultimately, how much you invest in a matter or relationship determines how much pressure you can bear, how much success you can achieve, and how long you can persist.
Feng Lun said: Greatness is forged through endurance. Why endurance?
Because you must endure grievances that ordinary people cannot bear; you lack the understanding, comfort, and encouragement that ordinary people need; while ordinary people vent emotions through confrontation, negativity, and blame, you must see love and light and learn to transform and digest everything; ordinary people need a shoulder to lean on when weak, but you are the shoulder others lean on.
Xiaozhuang said to Kangxi: "My grandson, the greatest crisis of the Qing Empire is not the thousands of troops outside, but the greatest danger lies within your own heart."
**Insight: The hardest thing is not others' rejection or misunderstanding, but whether you are willing to make changes for your dreams!**
A disciple asked: Master, sometimes you hit and scold people, sometimes you are polite. What is the mystery? The master said: For people of the highest caliber, I point directly to their hearts, I can hit or scold, treating them with my true face; for people of middle caliber, I use metaphors at most, with discretion, as they cannot bear scolding; for people of lower caliber, I smile and put my palms together, as they are fragile and narrow-minded, deserving only worldly etiquette.
**Insight: The grievances you can bear determine what kind of person you become!**
A person who cannot swim will not solve the problem by changing swimming pools;
A person who cannot do things will not solve their ability by changing jobs;
A person who does not understand love will not solve problems by changing partners;
A person who does not know how to manage a family will not solve problems by changing spouses;
A person who does not understand workplace ethics will never sustain success;
A person who does not understand proper health maintenance will not solve problems with more medicine or better hospital equipment.
I am the root of everything. To change everything, I must first change myself! Learning is the foundation of self-change. In fact, you love yourself; you like yourself. What you love and hate are all yourself. When you change, everything changes. Your world is created by you. Everything about you is created by you.
**Insight: One thought leads to heaven, one thought leads to hell. Where your heart is, there your achievements will be!**
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